TONI CHUKWUIWU

Sometimes that silence is good for you. Weigh in on it, sleep on it if you have to but don't let it resort to loneliness.  We're humans, we crave madly, we desire deeply, we may or may not get what we want. We sometimes get this selfish thinking that the people who don't want us back, the way we want them, will meet their Waterloo, I don't believe in Karma, I just know that whatever will meet you, will meet you, whether good or bad, depending on when God allows it. I try to fixate my mind on the fact that God won't give me the events that I can't handle. That's what keeps me going, I have turned down people in the past and never looked back, what they wished on me doesn't matter and likewise what I thought I should wish on those who turned me down doesn't matter. We mustn't get whatever we desire and that's why I try not to waste much time trying to chase what's not realistic.  Life might be long but time flies, a billion second on earth ...

You will walk thru fire 🔥 to make sure you keep your end of the bargain, you will even go extra distance to make sure its easier for them to keep theirs. All they need to do is just readjust their schedule & prioritize you, if not for the love but for the effort put in. They won't. They apologise for their incompetence,  you let go, you go again, they do it again blud! You wont try it again, never again, how long will you keep doing it over and over again. There is no gain. Run away from people who requires much sacrifice from you yet has none to give. Get away from folks who do not place more value on you above their own things as you, them. If you dont run, they will ruin you, maybe not just your emotions but they will run you straight to the ground. Fix up.