LOVE

Sometimes that silence is good for you.
Weigh in on it, sleep on it if you have to but don't let it resort to loneliness. 
We're humans, we crave madly, we desire deeply, we may or may not get what we want.

We sometimes get this selfish thinking that the people who don't want us back, the way we want them, will meet their Waterloo, I don't believe in Karma, I just know that whatever will meet you, will meet you, whether good or bad, depending on when God allows it.
I try to fixate my mind on the fact that God won't give me the events that I can't handle.
That's what keeps me going, I have turned down people in the past and never looked back, what they wished on me doesn't matter and likewise what I thought I should wish on those who turned me down doesn't matter.
We mustn't get whatever we desire and that's why I try not to waste much time trying to chase what's not realistic. 
Life might be long but time flies, a billion second on earth is a whooping 32 years.

I have met a fair share of people, good people, at first glance I thought they will do just fine for my project, they changed and disappeared so quickly, I have concluded that I would cherish the relationships I have now so that when evolution comes, I will not be in pains.

Love is a beautiful thing, when you find love, you don't need support, that's because love in itself is support. 
The earnest desire to have someone who will be concerned about your feelings, emotions and welfare in the intensity that no other person can.
We all need love, people who pretend they don't need love are those who need love the most. 
People who act like they are not ready are the worst, run away from them because you can't feed them to their fills, they're selfish, self-centered and every self whatever you may.
They want you to offer them what they can't give back, they want to harvest without a sow, they want it from many source.
Do not let them, value your existence, know that people should be grateful for what only you have to offer, you're unique, there is not two of you in this world. 
Share your time, energy and other resources with people who are worth it.
You're valuable, respect yourself. 

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